What To Wear At A Private Members Club.

The question on everyones lips is what to wear at a swingers club? or private members club? well this blog is going to point you in the right direction.

Firstly what is a swingers club or private members club? Well as one of the best clubs in the uk, The Vanilla Alternative, which is located just off the uk's longest motorway,  says ' it's a place for like minded people to come and relax in clean, smart surroundings, secure in the knowledge that your privacy and discretion are top of our priority list. there club comprises of several play rooms, a fully licensed bar, with chill out area and dance floor. They also have a pool and bondage room. 

The Vanilla Alternative

So what clothes do you take when visiting a club such as The Vanilla Alternative? well check the date you are going as sometimes the club holds specialised theme events such as Bunny and Hefners Playboy Party and there fetish party. Depending on the event being held will give you a guide of what to wear.

There is no obligations to get naked, or to wear as little as possible. You can just chill out in the bar area and wear a nice dress and shirt and trousers for the men, if that's what you want to do. But as you're all aware The Pantie Purse is a bit kinky, so we're going to start with the fetish night and what we would personally wear. 

The Noir Handmade Fetish Collection and our new Demoniq Shibari Collections are ideal for such event. 

We start with the men and this piece is one of our favourites.. to be truthful we love them all.

The Noir Handmade Collection for Men, has a great range of wet look tops and trousers, that are not only comfortable but look really stylish. As they are made from high quality material they are perfect for a fetish night. They're designed to give you that edgy style yet be very wearable. 

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We love a good sexy wet look playsuit and think not only would this one below look great in a swingers club, on a fetish night, we even think it would be great for a night out in a night club.

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Why not let your dominatrix side come out with the below dress. looking elegant and commanding from the front, this dress is made from black wet look material that features a stretch for comfort. The back of this dress is very naughty indeed. Be dom from the front and sub from the back as this dress is just asking for you to be spanked.

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Are you feeling a little bit flirty yet fetishy, well this babydoll set from our Demoniq Shibari Lingerie Collection covers it all. in black Wet look with a red trim, you can be fiesty and flirty all at the same time. 

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We think this dress below is ideal for wondering round the club, its not only elegant but covers just enough and reveals just a little for you to be the temptress you know you are. 

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At The VA, there's no pressure to play and definitely no pressure to play in front of people. They have a hotel attached to the club, so you can book a room and take the fun into your bedroom. They also offer camping in the summer months to. They host there famous Festival of Fun, usually in September, which can be very hot.

Whatever you choose to wear when you go to a swingers club or private members club, we are sure you'll look great especially if you get your outfit from us.

On Trend With Black Fishnet

We have all seen the posts on social media and the trend is rocketing for spring summer - it's the trend of fishnets.

Here are some facts about fishnets

1. They are often worn and seems s being seductive and erotic.
2. Nearly every major character in The Rocky Horror show wears them.
3. They are very popular in roller derby.
4. There have been many songs written about fishnets. Mainly released in the 1980's
5. Fishnets are won on the legs and arms in the goth culture.

The fishnet trend a the moment is all about wearing them with ripped jeans. well we have found some fishnet items that we think are much sexier.

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Is it fishnet or fencenet that you like. Well we think the trend deserves both. Above is a Plus Size fishnet bodystocking. A bodystocking like this could be worn with your ripped jeans and a bra underneath for outer wear. Or ... the the trend back into the bedroom, which is wear it came from.

Want to follow the instagramers and trend setters on social media, well its actually fence net they are all wearing. Below is a fence net bodystocking which could also be worn as outer were if you team it up with clothing correctly. As you can see fence net it a larger and wider hole between threads. But we think they both look great.

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Want something a little different and stand out from the crowd. A beautifully sexy see through fishnet top. This Demoniq black fishnet top is sheer and could be worn as lingerie or with a bra under for a night out. This sexy set comes with the fishnet top and black wet look hot pant shorts.

Whether you chose fishnet or fencenet we are sure you will look fantastic.

The Best Valentines Gift for Him and Her

Ok so its that time of year again, when everything in the shops turns red and roses spout from every vase across the land, yes everyone, its going to be valentines day very soon.  We thought we'd give you some great gift ideas for the one you love. Obviously being from us they are going to be a bit on the naughty side, but you wouldn't love reading our blogs if they weren't. But all laughing aside there are some great ideas not only for gifts for valentines day but gifts for anytime of the year, to spice things up in your love life.

We start with valentines gifts for her -

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Something pretty in black and pink. This beautiful babydoll chemise set, is made from black sheer fabric with beautiful pink lace details and has a girlie little frill to the bottom. This set is priced at £16.99 and comes in a range of sizes from The Pantie Purse.  A very flattering design for all women to feel at their sexiest.

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if you want something a little more edgy for your other half, and to bring out that inner dark goddess, then this beautiful black sheer and faux leather body suit if for you. With padded cups , adjustable bra straps and beautiful detailing, this stunning piece of lingerie won't disappoint.

now it time for the men - and we have that all wrapped up for you, with a bow and everything.

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These boxers are the perfect present for you and him, why not tie his package up in a bow and make it like unwrapping a gift. made from wet look material and with a red bow, these boxer shorts will be loved by you and him.

Moving on to something a little more kinky for him and you. Boxer Shorts with a leash. Yes you heard it right, keep your man on a leash. bring out yours and his kinky side. These would go perfectly if the female of the relationship was wearing the faux leather body above.

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what ever gift you decide to buy your other half this Valentines Day we hope its one from The Pantie Purse

Now a few naughty poems that you might want to use in those valentines cards - 

There was a young sailor from Brighton
Who remarked to his girl,You're a tight one.
She replied, "Don my soul,
You're in the wrong hole
There's plenty of room in the right one.

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Roses are red,

Violets are corny,

When I think of you

Ohh baby I get horny,

Eat me,

Beat me,

Bite me,

Blow me,

Suck me,

Fuck me,

Very slowly,

if you kiss me,

dont be sassy,

Use your tongue and make it nasty!!!! 

Cuckolding, Hot Wife and Polyamorous Relationships

So in this blog we are going to touch on 3 subjects that hit the headlines and papers in popular demand in 2016. Although all 3 have been around in some form or another for hundreds if not thousands of years.

We start with the first Cuckolding. So what is it, who is it and whats it all about. Time for a little history lesson. The conversation about cuckolding might be new but it’s anything but new. In fact William Shakespeare used the term as an insult a lot. This was because back in the day the most insulting thing you could imply about a man is that he didn’t have full and complete ownership of his wife. Taking it even further back, Cuckold came from the word Cuckoo. It implies that the husband is deceived, that he is unaware of his wife's unfaithfulness and may not know until the arrival or growth of a child plainly not his (as with cuckoo birds). The fetish of cuckolding - where men allow other men to have sexual relationships with their wives - is on the rise and even featured in article in The Independent and Metro. but why you ask? well its a huge turn on thats why, within the fetish communities and non fetish communities. Unlike the traditional definition of the term, in fetish usage a cuckold is complicit in his (or her) partner's sexual "infidelity"; the wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is called a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive. This isn’t like swinging, and it’s not a threesome. Cuckolded men (aka "cucks") only observe their wives’ infidelities, they don’t participate. And that's why they find it a turn-on: They're left out, looking on as the woman they love climaxes with a better man than them. It’s a form of psychological sadomasochism. Some people get turned on by whips, chains, and physical pain. Cucks get aroused by mental anguish.

A cuckquean is the gender-opposite of a cuckold, derived from Middle Engish in 1562. A cuckquean is a woman with an adulterous husband. In modern English it generally refers to a woman whose fetish is watching, and deriving sexual pleasure from watching, a man having sex with one or several women besides his girlfriend, fiancée, or wife. A cuckquean fetishist is aware of her spouse's activity, sometimes actively encouraging it,and derives sexual pleasure from it. Among fetishists, the cuckold's humiliation or victimization is a major element fantasy and pleasure for all parties involved. When the fetish is simply heterosexual, the wife has sex only with her husband; when it is bi-sexual, the wife has sex with both her husband and the other woman, or only with the other woman.

cuckolding has evolved and the 'Hot Wife' has been born. A “hotwife” is a married woman who often has sexual relations with different men, with the approval of her husband. The Hot Wife would go off to meet another man in a hotel or else where for sexual encounters, to come back to her husband the next day, all wet from the pleasure she had the night before and tell him all about it. This usually results in passionate sex between the husband and wife because both parties are extremely turned on. It has known to be great for relationships, but is rarely tried by people who have just started a relationship or only just moved in together.

So the above 2 extremely satisfying fetishes lead me to the one thing that is growing in demand and popularity and thats Polyamorous Relationships. Having multiple sexually or romantically committed relationships at the same time, with the consent of all partners involved.

“Polyamorous communities emphasize love and honesty in their multi-partner relationships.” 

This is not to be confused with swinging or multiple relationships, where you are sleeping with the other people or they are friends with benefits, whom you love. A combination of two words: The Greek word "poly" meaning more than one / many, and the latin word "amor" meaning love.) Meaning when a person loves more than one person romantically.

Polyamorous Relationships are when you have a husband and a boyfriends and love them equally emotionally and sexually and all parties agree. 

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A Wife Swapping Playground with Playgrounds at Radletts

So once again we have been out and about meeting new people and taking The Pantie Purse and all the goodie we have to offer on tour, and for sale. The lovely people from Playgrounds invited us to one of their parties, which was held at Radletts. If you haven't  heard of Radletts then check out netflix, as their famous club/house is featured on there. Search for Wife Swapping Im sure you'll find it.

Playgrounds are known for their amazing parties and holding our Pantie Purse stall was a great opportunity. We arrived at the beautiful Radletts house early so we could get set up. What a great welcome we received. This was the first time we had been to a club/party like this, so we were  little nervous. We were made to feel really welcome and everyone was soo lovely and kind.

Radletts is different for a normal swinging club. Its set in a beautiful large house, which is clean and friendly. You can choose to spend your time in the lounge chilling out and chatting, or have a brew in the kitchen, or a dance on the dance floor which was part of what used to be a living room.  It was a large room and this was where we set up our stall. Outside the french doors was a patio area, with hot tub and large swimming pool that anyone could enjoy.

Dressed to impress people arrived from roughly 9.30pm and the party was in full swing. If you wanted to partake in a little bit of wife swapping then there were plenty of bedrooms upstairs you could use, which were all clean and well equipped for whatever you needed them for.

People enjoyed us being there, picking up little bits and bobs throughout the night, we were happy to help them enjoy their experiences even more. We wanted to thank Radletts for having us and the awesome guys from Playgrounds for inviting us. We have met Playgrounds on a few occasions now and if you get a chance to attend one of their parties or events, there not to be missed.

Be A Devil With Give Lube Heating and Cooling Lubricant Pleasure Gels.

Well as its nearer to halloween and we all like to bring a little bit of devil out in us, then we thought it only right to introduce some of the new lubricant pleasure gel on offer from The Pantie Purse.

Give Lube are creators of high quality lubricants and pleasure gels and as customers and regular blog readers, you all know this is the only lubricant rage we stock at The Pantie Purse - why you may ask? Well we love the thought that Give Lube is a UK Brand and their lubricants and pleasure gel are pretty awesome to.

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There are 3 fantastic new products in the Give Lube range - The first is the Super Thick Aqua Lube.
This lube is great for any kind of sex including anal. Its super thick texture means the lubricant lasts for hours, or lets as long as you do.  100% toy safe and enriched with vitamin e making it great for the skin to.

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The 2nd new product we have to offer you is devilishly hot and will heat up those senses and genitals for extra pleasure while you play - It's Give Lube Lube Tube Horny Devil Warming Gel. We do suggest you use this product sparingly as it packs a punch, but the sensation it gives while playing not only heats you up but will also heat up your partner to. Use it as a lubricant or as a massage gel, either way you will enjoy yourself getting all hot and bothered in the process.

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Well I think we need to cool down as we are a little hot and bothered after the talk of this devilish lube, and that brings us on nicely to our final product - Give Lube Lube Tube Ice Breaker Cooling Gel. This 100ml Lube Tube is filled with a cooling gel that will give you a fresh cool feeling where ever used. Like the Heating Gel the Cooling Gel can be used as a lubricant or as a massage gel.

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Which ever lubricant you chose from our Give Lube range we are sure they will all heighten the senses and leave you wanting more.

Creepy Clown Sightings In The UK - Stay At Home This Halloween

Halloween is coming and the craze that has swept America has also arrived in the UK - it's the craze of the Crazy Creepy Clowns. Not only are these costumes extremely scary which is good I suppose for Halloween, however they could get you into big trouble with the law. So what should we do I hear you ask - Well at The Pantie Purse we suggest you stay at home and bring out your sexy halloween outfits and sexy halloween costumes other than the scary ones.

Creepy Clown Craze Sightings in UK.

By staying at home not only will you be safe from these Creepy Clowns but if you were planning on dressing up as one, you will have saved yourself getting into a whole lot of trouble.

We are not saying don't dress up, so we do have some ideas we have put together of make-up and outfit ideas you could chose and we had to feature a sexy clown to.

We start off with The Sexy Clown - A cute Clown with a Pink Babydoll Chemise can turn into a scary yet sexy clown depending what make up you decide on. Who said Halloween couldn't be taken into the bedroom. The Clown Make-Up below can be done with very little effort, just a little bit of pink eyeshadow and black eyeliner, finished off with a red lipstick.

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Sexy Clown Make Up.

Our next Sexy Halloween Costume and Sexy Halloween Make-Up is the Sexy Witch. Wear a beautiful black sparkly lingerie body teddy. You can decide whether you want to be a good witch or a bad witch, but we are sure bad witches have more fun. Team the outfit with a witches has and you have cracked it.

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Sexy Witch Make-Up.

We are moving on to our final sexy halloween costume idea and this one doesn't need to stay in the bedroom, it would be ideal for a sexy party. We all know vampires are sexy, with their neck biting and close contact and intimacy, we had to feature vampires in our list. Below is our take on the sexy vampire -

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Sexy Vampire Make-Up

We all hope you enjoy your halloween, stay safe and stay sexy.