What To Wear At A Private Members Club.

The question on everyones lips is what to wear at a swingers club? or private members club? well this blog is going to point you in the right direction.

Firstly what is a swingers club or private members club? Well as one of the best clubs in the uk, The Vanilla Alternative, which is located just off the uk's longest motorway,  says ' it's a place for like minded people to come and relax in clean, smart surroundings, secure in the knowledge that your privacy and discretion are top of our priority list. there club comprises of several play rooms, a fully licensed bar, with chill out area and dance floor. They also have a pool and bondage room. 

The Vanilla Alternative

So what clothes do you take when visiting a club such as The Vanilla Alternative? well check the date you are going as sometimes the club holds specialised theme events such as Bunny and Hefners Playboy Party and there fetish party. Depending on the event being held will give you a guide of what to wear.

There is no obligations to get naked, or to wear as little as possible. You can just chill out in the bar area and wear a nice dress and shirt and trousers for the men, if that's what you want to do. But as you're all aware The Pantie Purse is a bit kinky, so we're going to start with the fetish night and what we would personally wear. 

The Noir Handmade Fetish Collection and our new Demoniq Shibari Collections are ideal for such event. 

We start with the men and this piece is one of our favourites.. to be truthful we love them all.

The Noir Handmade Collection for Men, has a great range of wet look tops and trousers, that are not only comfortable but look really stylish. As they are made from high quality material they are perfect for a fetish night. They're designed to give you that edgy style yet be very wearable. 

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We love a good sexy wet look playsuit and think not only would this one below look great in a swingers club, on a fetish night, we even think it would be great for a night out in a night club.

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Why not let your dominatrix side come out with the below dress. looking elegant and commanding from the front, this dress is made from black wet look material that features a stretch for comfort. The back of this dress is very naughty indeed. Be dom from the front and sub from the back as this dress is just asking for you to be spanked.

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Are you feeling a little bit flirty yet fetishy, well this babydoll set from our Demoniq Shibari Lingerie Collection covers it all. in black Wet look with a red trim, you can be fiesty and flirty all at the same time. 

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We think this dress below is ideal for wondering round the club, its not only elegant but covers just enough and reveals just a little for you to be the temptress you know you are. 

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At The VA, there's no pressure to play and definitely no pressure to play in front of people. They have a hotel attached to the club, so you can book a room and take the fun into your bedroom. They also offer camping in the summer months to. They host there famous Festival of Fun, usually in September, which can be very hot.

Whatever you choose to wear when you go to a swingers club or private members club, we are sure you'll look great especially if you get your outfit from us.

Vanilla Alternative Festival Of Fun

As you know and have gathered The Pantie Purse has been getting out and about this year and our last event was the wonderful Vanilla Alternative Festival Of Fun. This great festival for the alternative life style was held in the grounds of the hotel and swingers club The Vanilla Alternative.

Vanilla Alternative

As the Vanilla Alternative say - there concept is - 

The Vanilla Alternative, an entirely new and exciting experience that adults across the UK are flocking to experience.With our huge hot tub, open and private play areas, fully licensed bar, our own hotel and gorgeous decor, you'll see why more and more swingers are choosing to become members at The Vanilla Alternative.

We were not disappointed when we arrived. We were lucky enough to be invited personally to have a stall at the Festival Of Fun, we had been recommended by Social Swinging, who we have been working close with over a few months. We travelled down and arrived around 5pm on the Friday. We were greeted by very professional members of staff, who went through security checks, made you sign privacy statements and told you where to go and handed you the rules of the festival. 

Ground of the Vanilla Alternative

We were impressed by the location, such a beautiful spot with vast grounds and right next to a river. We parked up our van and went to find the organises. Well what can we say about Jules and Scott, Beautiful, Kind, Bubbly and just all round amazing. As people were just arriving the Friday, we decided not to set up our stall until the Saturday morning. Instead we met up with the guys from Social Swinging, who were also promoting their site and did some socialising.

Social Swinging

The next morning we got up pretty early and before most of the guests. We had a lovely shower, the facility were amazing at The Vanilla Alternative, always clean, always working. After the shower and a good cup of coffee we set to work setting up our stall. 

The Pantie Purse stall at Vanilla Alternative

The sun was shining and we mean shining, it was so hot most people were having bbq's sunbathing and generally relaxing. We worked from 11am to 6pm and met some amazing people and some of our regular customers. We then had a tour of the venue. Its such a beautiful and relaxing atmosphere. With chill out areas , licensed bar and even their own giant hot tub/ pool, everything is done to the highest of standard. 

Vanilla Alterative

Pool / Hot Tub at The Vanilla Alternative

Day turned into night, and the event didn't disappoint, with everyone getting glammed up, including us at The Pantie Purse, it was time to enjoy live music. everyone looked beautiful, there was such a high class of people at the Vanilla Alternative Festival. 

The Pantie Purse at The Vanilla Alternative Festival. Wearing Noir  Handmade,

The band was amazing, a great selection of music and a bit of rock, which we love. They were so talented. when the band had finished the DJ began. What a hunk he was and he played some great tunes. Then it started the Vanilla Alternative Festival Of Fun Foam Party, OMG it was amazing, there was too much foam and as it was a beautiful summers night it was soo enjoyable. Once the foam party had ended it was time for another shower and more socialising with the great friends we had made during the festival. 

I don't think anyone was seen the next day until after 10am, as the partying last well into the early hours of the morning. it was time to pack away our stands, say goodbye to new and old friends and head home.

This event at Vanilla Alternative is not to be missed, great venue, great entertainment and great people. we will most certainly attending again.

All photos in this blog have been taken by Kieran of In The Scene Photography.